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I love handmade people..

Well, I've really rolled out the features this week, and tackled quite a few bugs, but I finally have a little breather, so I thought I would blog a bit. I really don't do blogging all that often, because I really never know what to say. I've always been someone who was very private. I don't open up to people easily, and always have been weary of "putting myself out there". But since becoming involved with the online handmade community, I've had to rethink this. It was downright frightening for me to put my photography out there on the web because it's just not something that I ever thought was that great.

So, that brings me to why byhand.me was created I guess. The major issues I saw with handmade caused me to create this site. Issues like joining a social network and being spammed. Ads covering the whole page, where you have to compete for views of you and your work and all those that are also trying to get themselves out there. The issues with trying to promote yourself on multiple venues because otherwise, you get lost in the crowd. So how does byhand try to solve these? Well, first, you'll notice that we don't allow folks to post on your profile. It's about you, not them. No more "hit and run" type advertising with folks posting an Etsy mini, or their web site on your profile. If people truly are interested in connecting with you, we have provided tools for doing just that. And sure, we have ads, but they are designated to a small portion of the web site and aren't plastered anywhere there is room. You'll notice that when on your profile, there are no ads at all because the important bit is YOU, not any one else. And lastly, why work so hard to drive traffic to your blogspot blog, your Silkfair shop, your own website, when you could drive traffic to a SINGLE place that let's folks know who you are. It's time to talk about ME. It's time to promote ME. It's time to stop trying to wear yourself out in promoting venues, and blogs, and everywhere else you are online and consolidate it into a single place where you can let everyone know who you are, and where to find you.

So, there must be a catch, right? I mean, surely, this won't always be free, or you won't always be around giving away what surely is a golden opportunity, right?  Well, there is no catch. It's time to practice what I preach and get downright personal with the community. It's time to reveal the reasons why this site is free for you all, and will remain so as long as I can.

I come from a very humble background. I'm from a family of 5 and a very small midwestern town, and while my dad worked his tail off trying to provide, it wasn't always enough. I know what powdered milk and government cheese tastes like and I wouldn't recommend them to anyone. Because of my grandfather I know how to drive a cement mixer, how to finish a driveway or sidewalk, how to weld two pieces of steel together, and what it feels like to have your hand crushed by a 600 pound concrete picnic table top. Because of my mom, I know what DMC floss is, and no it ain't for your teeth. I know how to hem my own pants, how to cross stitch, how to sew a button properly, and how to thread bobbin in a sewing machine. Being creative and making do with what you had was a fact of life for me. I never saw it as revolutionary, or the "cool" thing to do, it just WAS. It was a part of getting by.

Because of my background, and the blue collar work ethic that I had instilled in me, I have worked hard to make something of myself in the white collar world. I have a great job with a great company with no fear of being laid off. I make enough of a living to do the things I want, rather than just get by with what I need. Sure, there are opportunities to make money off those clamoring to make it with their art, but I'm comfortable and don't need that. I've seen how hard it is to struggle trying to make a living at what you love to do, I don't need to be adding to the struggle for anyone. So there you have it. That's why byhand.me exists. For folks all over like my mom and dad who work hard every day to try to better themselves with their own talents. For folks who may not get the opportunity to live as comfortably as I do, but have the same goals as I do and just need that little break in the clouds to get them started. It's for those that sacrifice every day so that their kids don't have to. And it's for those that already have success, because you can never have too much.

And, it's because, well, I love handmade people..

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Posted by Anne Downen
21-02-2009 15:36,
 
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Infi, I truly appreciate all you do. I know how helpful you've always been to me, even back in the days of the website, and how much you helped me when you didn't have to, and you never charged me for that help, when you very well could have.  
 
So, thank you.  
 
I do understand the "private" thing. It's very hard to share artwork with the world, you never know how it's going to be received, and it's incredibly painful when it's not received positively, because it is your "baby" -- a very intimate part of you, something you created. It's something I go through regularly! 
 
You Rock! ;)
 
 

Posted by beachyrustica
21-02-2009 16:31,
 
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You are doing a very cool thing, and we appreciate it. Handmade people love you too! :zzz
 
 

Posted by Lumina Jewelry
21-02-2009 17:07,
 
And thank you!
You have given the handmade world a great tool, unequaled opportunities, an extraordinary gift. Every day there is another terrific feature introduced on ByHand. I can't tell you how much I appreciate it and how much I love to spend time here. Thank you for all that, and thank you for giving us a peek into what went into ByHand!
 
 

Posted by M. Adam Kendall
22-02-2009 00:23,
 
Thank you all..
Your words and thoughts means that I am on the right track. I appreciate it, and remain just your friendly neighborhood spider.. err.. wait.. wrong hero. :p
 
 

Posted by Heather
22-02-2009 09:39,
 
Many thanks!
It's so great to see genuine people sharing their gifts with others.  
 
Your perspective will draw more and more people into this fabulous community, and I look forward to watching it grow.  
 
Thanks for a great site, and keep up the good work! 
 
Heather
 
 

Posted by Amanda Conley
22-02-2009 13:09,
 
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That's awesome. Thank you.
 
 

Posted by Barbra
22-02-2009 15:21,
 
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I just joined,minutes ago and am fumbling around but after reading your post I'm glad to be here. We have much in common although you know the cyber workings way better than I do. Thanks for all you're doing! :)
 
 

Posted by Eva J Summers
22-02-2009 17:59,
 
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I just wanted to Thank You for the site you have a great service here.
 
 

Posted by Amy Cantini
23-02-2009 11:58,
 
Thank you
infivision, this was a nice glimpse into who you are...I too know about powdered milk and government cheese. 
I also know what it is to make do, not cause it's chic, just cause it has to BE. I have frequented your shop many a day and enjoy looking through your pictures. You bring such beauty from places we may not be able to look.
 
 

Posted by Jessi
25-02-2009 21:51,
 
Honesty Appreciated!
I hear you about your concerns over privacy and opening up and I second the motion. I very much appreciate your honesty and candor. As I'm learning more about Byhand, reading your article makes me happy to be here. I'll look forward to becoming a part of the community and learning more. 
Thanks again.
 
 

Posted by Linda Guzik
27-02-2009 23:33,
 
Thank You!
:grin  
 
Thanks for giving artists the boost they need on the big www.
 
 

Posted by Tracey Barker
01-03-2009 00:11,
 
Thank you
What a great website and a wonderful format!
 
 

Posted by Haley Alcock
01-03-2009 10:22,
 
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Just signed up, your article inspired me! :)
 
 

Posted by Sue Sutton
01-03-2009 10:36,
 
Just signed up
and put together my first spotlight...thanks for having a place for us hand made types! 
 
btw, government cheese blows!
 
 

Posted by Ava
01-03-2009 15:13,
 
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Just read your article and just signed up. Thank you for sharing your heart and for your generosity. I just know I'm going to love it here.
 
 

Posted by pinkfink
02-03-2009 07:35,
 
Pretty Awesome!
I think you're awesome! In this day and age its hard to come by anyone who is willing to do something for someone else and not be looking at what's in it for them and yet you have done that! My hat is off to you and the great example you are to those around you!! 
I will try and emulate your attitude myself and maybe if a few other do so as well we will be making an impact, even if small, on the lives of those we come in contact with! 
Pinkfink :-)
 
 

Posted by Linda Blatchford
02-03-2009 13:14,
 
Gratitude
We're all grateful for your humility, upbringing and creation of this great tool for handmade items.  
 
I'm still learning the ropes, and it's fairly simply. 
 
I just wanted to say thanks after reading your article.
 
 

Posted by Nicole Hill
03-03-2009 06:33,
 
Thank you
Thank you very much being brave enough to put yourself out there, and for your generosity in setting up this site - you're an inspiration to us all!
 
 

Posted by Ginger Gonzalez
04-03-2009 10:22,
 
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From one who shares a similar background as yours I really appreciate what you have done. 
Yup government cheese sucks but the peanut butter wasn't to bad :grin
I hope to be a helpful member, thank you, Ginger
 
 

Posted by dana milton
04-03-2009 12:35,
 
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wonderful! so glad to be on board!
 
 
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